There've been a few people who talked to me about how they liked this server better when it was smaller.
I'm in your field and rooting for everyone, yes, but I want to also explain why I'm not moderating that or really taking any measure at limiting it, beyond like... 'artists only.'
As a miniature history, the chat here used to be an unruly group of about thirty or less people, just individuals occasionally inviting a single friend every once in a while for about a half year. That changed, in my head, specifically when Zalia and Null joined the server, when we really started inviting people who I'd yet to meet at all. I think that's when I started hearing that things were better before.
Which! To be fair, is a sound argument, at least to the extent that the server was pleasant and the only memories you have are good, meaning that now that there's also a little social anxiety it feels a whole lot worse. But I'm also going to point out that those were the days that this server remained pretty much abandoned until Sunday every week for Group A, with a spike of activity for an hour and then nothing.
I personally think it's better now. Like, acclaim a Tragedy Of The Commons as often as you can, but to me that conversation only makes sense in the context of a limited resource. We're growing at the hips and if we'd stopped I wouldn't have met some of my now-favorite people-- and it was already hard to choose. In my head, I'm making more friends and would be sabotaging would-be new ones by limiting it.
I still don't know what we'll do about drama for when it DOES crop up, but we're a lil overdue for SOMETHING. Nobody outright obnoxious has joined yet, nobody conniving or manipulative or if they have joined maybe our vibes have quashed theirs. I dunno! I guess I'm more just waiting for something to go wrong before I think something IS wrong.
Still, comment thoughts and hot-takes in #server-discussion, I don't want to be in an echo chamber. If nothing else, I just wanted to air out the topic for everyone that was thinking it. (edited)